TIME COMES FOR US TO SPEAK at length about The Big
spoke earlier about the innocence of childhood, and the purity
of a child's experience of physical sensation and connections
in love. We also spoke about early childhood abuse - whether
verbal, physical, or sexual - and the hidden contractual benefits
of same. We have seen a whole host of bright souls/stars, born
onto the Earth Plane who have been suppressed, for a time, through
the installation of "scar(e) tissue" around those
tender connection points between persons. Shut down, as it were,
until the timing of their Reconnection
let us turn to another form of inversion for Spiritual/Sexual
Power, which is Human Relationship - especially those formats
for relating that emphasize the concept of "commitment."
As we begin to realize the incredible power that is stored up
inside a Reconnecting Human, we are less and less amazed by
the amount of "Dark
Forces" that are employed to keep him or her from awakening
too soon, thereby blowing apart the Grand 3D Experiment before
its end goals are accomplished. Little by little, we see that
the definitions of "darkness
and light" take on a whole new meaning when seen from
the viewpoint of Universal Oneness.
agency for enlistment into physical form involves deep and abiding
connections with other humans - family, friends, lovers, children - who
serve as "seat belts," to anchor us into physical
reality, and keep us on course. And we speak of ourselves as
"committed" to them, as reasons to live, because we
just might depart without the sense of purpose they bring to
term "intercourse" is a revealing one. Two paths (two
courses for living) choose to become intertwined, less they
individually go asunder, through connecting to the Big Picture
too soon. So, two partners will conspire together to create
and become absorbed in a "little picture," all their
own, which both find compelling, sometimes dramatic, and utterly
absorbing of mind and emotion! It is a term that is applied
both to speech (talking and sharing), and also to sexual bonding
the usage of the term "commitment," in society, refers
to a locking up of crazy people or criminals! Indeed, could
it be possible that there are souls who would, indeed, go "crazy"
if they did not have something (or someone) to absorb the intense
focus of their waking minds?
Reconnections tell us that those who emphasize the need
for fidelity in relationship most are also the same ones who
would tend to violate it quickest if the bonds of "holy
matrimony" are left open. It's a mystery, is it not? Whenever
we concern ourselves with someone "cheating" on a
promise to us, or demand control over his or her life choices
- it is OUR OWN MOTIVES that are suspect.
Oneness Consciousness, my 3D world is my mirror.
Nin tells us: "We don't see the world as it is. We see
the world as WE are."
Jesus told us: "Why concern yourself with taking the speck
out of your neighbor's eye? Why not take the LOG out of your
own eye first? THEN you can see clearly to take the speck of
your neighbor's eye."
beauty of 3D is that we get to see and deal with our "life
issues," up close and in a personal way. We manifest them
in physical form to keep ourselves occupied, and teach us perspective.
The lovers we tend to attract, and be committed unto, usually
tend to symbolize that which we have forgotten about ourselves.
"fidelity" aspect of love and marriage - especially
if it goes on for any length of time - will normally serve one
of two purposes. Either it will provoke one or both partners
to engage in clandestine "affairs," in order to keep
their passion alive, or it will encourage both partners to gradually
put their sexual energy "to sleep," so that it can
be sublimated into other channels.
very few exceptions, the old adage "familiarity breeds
contempt" is a huge causative factor for the decline of
sexual chemistry as life partnerships progress. In other words,
people simply bind themselves "together" so tightly
that they bore their sexual selves to death. If, for religious
or other purposes, two people actually succeed in sidestepping
sexual involvement outside of marriage, their Spirituality and
Sex Interface (and Pathway to Reconnection) can drop so low
that many folks report (when you catch them in a truly "honest"
frame of mind) barely feeling alive.
When the time arrives for one or both partners in a relationship
to wake up and smell the coffee (in regards to Spirituality
and Sex) it can often seem like a "beast" is released
in their midst! If one person elects to open up "Pandora's
Box," the other one has to look inside there too. The "quickening"
can either take the form of a personal awakening to passion
- as is so beautifully portrayed in the motion picture "Unfaithful,"
starring Richard Gere and Diane Lane - or it can involve a sudden
surge of curiosity and focus on spiritual inquiry and personal
one of these activities can cause stress in a marriage, especially
in the life of the partner who seeks to keep things calm, and
maintain the status quo. And they can cause a huge sense of
betrayal, which is often emphasized and exploited to continue
holding that "wandering soul" in place. However, that
is mere illusion. What one person does, while in relationship,
is automatically a reflection of the "shadow aspect"
of the other. After all, they are ONE BEING, are they not?
tend to break out of their commitments when the Time of Reconnection
arrives. After all, at our hearts, we are free and infinite
beings. When the time comes, we will step over boundaries, forsake
promises, and do whatever is necessary to peck our way out of
our self-designed "shells" of forgetfulness and denial.
Even though God, Religion and Society COMMAND that we DO NOT
EAT the fruits of those "forbidden trees"...we, like
Eve, will not be able to resist. We will be like moths to a
flame, and our marriages can go up in smoke unless those we
have chosen to "sleep with" for many years also choose
to awaken with us.
Not all relationships need to go up in smoke when the Time of
Reconnection arrives. Some of them transform or, at least, they
make an effort to do so. Some couples go to great lengths to
stay together as the Spirituality and Sex Interface begins to
re-open. They lay aside pre-determined "rules," they
seek counseling, and they bend and flex with the gathering winds
of their awakening inner nature.
are times when sustaining a relationship during an awakening
can be a beautiful thing to watch. At other times, onlookers
simply shake their heads, and wonder about the sanity of those
involved. So be it. When a transforming caterpillar becomes
ready to drop the cocoon, its struggle for freedom is what readies
the wings to take flight. Childbirth often involves pain and
messiness. Isn't that really what we're talking about here?
Human is actually giving birth to his or her CORE SELF.
expansion of Sexuality, especially during the Process of Reconnection
has far more to do with ENERGY than overt acts of love or passion.
If they choose, couples can let the process gradually transform
them - together - and the Guides have specific insights to deal
with this. In one
segment of the Series, they tell us:
When committed couples, in your current culture, go in for
"Sex Therapy," it is often because one or both of
them feels that sex has become "dull and flat." The
frequency of their lovemaking has, perhaps, dwindled down to
almost nothing, in comparison to the beginning of the relationship.
It is not unusual for a Sex Therapist, beginning work with
just such a couple, to actually require that they cease, for
a time, any practice of "normal sexual relations,"
in favor of softening the nature and quality of their interactions
together. We are speaking here about simple touch, staring into
each other's eyes, being together in romantic settings. Simple
touching, no "sex" by your present standards. In this
way, a couple learns to de-emphasize the issue of "performance"
or the repetition of certain "acts," in favor of expanding
and adjusting their overall sexual attitude towards each other.
In a more liberal and non-traditional environment, a Sex
Therapist may be replaced by a Priest or Priestess of the Goddess
Traditions, seeking to install a new viewpoint about making
love (which is also a very old one). As mentioned in Part 1,
the newest evolution of sexual expression and appreciation will
be to expand localized focus and sensitivity from specified
"sexual areas" in yourselves and diffuse it throughout
the whole body.
Those who are "Tantric" in their orientation,
will seek to use sexual arousal to produce Kundalini
Activation in the root chakra and carry that energy up the
spinal canal to the heart, throat, and intuitive areas, rather
than ejaculate it into another person. In this way, one's overall
spiritual connection can be enhanced and amplified, creating
a clear channel of unfettered communication between the intuitive
and primal levels of human energy.
is more than one way to peel a grape, or a banana for that matter.
The Spirituality and Sex Interface is an inward one, which expresses
itself outwardly. It is not the other way around. If it appears
to be so, then we are not speaking about a genuine Awakening
to Power, are we? We've merely taken the "Game" to
the Energy Rises, and Kundalini is aroused, any pretense that
has been formed around the idea of "staying together for
the sake of the kids (or whatever)" will be gradually burned
away. That is the nature of "The Beast." The Urge
to Merge (with everything and everyone) becomes all encompassing.
Anything that gets in the way of it will fall by the wayside.
However, that which supports and amplifies this awakening will
definitely survive...and even flourish!
the years, I have seen incredible resurrections of power and
passion in relationships when they become founded upon a growing
spiritual purpose in life. We are speaking here about THE
GREAT WORK, and its ripple effects upon everyone and everything
that surrounds it. Even if a relationship begins with the idea
of "you and me against the world," and then falters...it
can be powerfully renewed when the idea of "you and me
AS the world" gets installed at its core.
GO OF DRAMA TRAUMA
The Limitation Dramas that flow in and out of domestic situations
are very seductive and engaging. The assignment of the roles
of "victim" and "perpetrator" are rampant in society these days.
They are meant to be that way, in order to distract and hold
two (or more) people here in physical form. Yet, once a person
or group of persons gets "turned on" to the expanded reality
of All-As-One, and a genuine Spirituality and Sex Interface,
old dramas simply lose their power and magnetism.
is possible (and even desirable) for folks to band together,
to receive warmth and sustenance during their Time of Reconnection.
Sooner or later we begin to understand that any changes that
may have to happen in regards to our "commitments," as we grow
in faith, have less to do with our love for each other, and
far more to do with the FORMATS in which we express it.
IS a whole new format that is emerging today, as more and more
people COME ONLINE with the Spirit and Sex Interface. We will
talk about it next month, taking care to examine a few of the
"pitfalls" that can occur when couples and families are in transition.
the meantime, I trust you have all enjoyed (and survived!) the
Holidays and are ready for a bright New Year! If any of you
have comments to make about this series, I am very open to hear