WE LIVE IN A HECTIC TIME. Ours is an instant
gratification society. We want it now. Yet as we reflect on the
best things in our lives, we often find the truly important things
(like relationships, love and peace) took time to develop.
The "always on" nature of the
tools we use in business can all too easily trap us into believing
that we can function as machines too. But we're not machines,
we're human beings. Is there a way to achieve peak performance
and happiness in life too? Of course.
"The
music of the Universe consistently plays in the key of joy -
your joy."
~Eva
Here are five factors which,
when practiced consistently in your life, will help you tap
into the giant creativity reservoir you have within.
Be consistent. The more often
you keep your creativity appointments, the more you will find
that you have the "aha!" moments during your day,
when solutions to problems just pop into your mind.
Expand the appointments to include
a half-day a month and you will unleash even more creativity.
Soon, you will hunger for these times because you will find
it is while doing nothing at all that something very good gets
done.
Your creativity is a very powerful
force - one that helps you to achieve amazing things.
Your imagination is equally powerful! Dreams cannot harm you.
Instead, they can help you immensely. Not the ones you have
when you're sleeping, but the ones you hold in your heart -
your fondest desires. Those dreams can shape your reality if
you take the time to give them life and to visualize them. Do
you ever wonder about the self-confidence that successful people
always seem to have? It's that self-confidence that got them
where they wanted to be.
They focused on the goal - their
big dream - and the mind and body made it happen.
"You
move fastest through transition when you don't try to rush it. There is great learning at every stage."
~Eva
Do you ever play "what if?"
Sometimes playing "what if?" can be very effective
if it puts you into a state of feeling good. However, sometimes
it can cause you to spiral downward. So, instead of playing
"what if," why not play "I am."
How does one play? It all comes
back to "being." You can be what you want if you
can picture yourself being it, living it and experiencing it.
Close your eyes, relax and imagine you have a wonderful life.
You are able to relax and enjoy life to the fullest. You are
content and all of your worries are gone. Use all five of your
senses.
Elaborate from this initial "I
am" picture. What kind of house do you live in? Where
is it located? Is this your summer home? What does the air smell
like when you arrive at your home? Is it by the sea? Is it in
the country?
Can you see it clearly? How does
it make you feel? Do you feel like it is really yours? Do you
feel as though you've earned it, that you deserve all that you
are visualizing? This, too, is part of the process. When your
feelings are one with your thoughts and beliefs and they are
focused on the positive goals that you have set, the picture
you are holding in your mind's eye will begin manifesting. In
essence, you've used your thoughts to attract the people, ideas,
situations and events that will bring you the vision you are
holding of yourself, thus creating your reality.
Bridget was feeling exceptionally
low when a friend suggested she schedule a session with a personal
coach. She was hesitant and skeptical, thinking there was not
anything her coach could tell her she hadn't already thought
of, envisioned or dreamed of herself. She found she was both
right and wrong in her assumptions. When she met Dora she was
impressed by how grounded she was and by how much they had in
common. She also found out a couple of years before Dora discovered
coaching, she was feeling adrift and had a business that was
floundering. Bridget readily identified with this because her
gift shop had been doing so poorly lately that she had a number
of creditors calling looking for payment. Dora told her she
used visualization to obtain her goals. Bridget scoffed at the
idea. But when Dora explained that someone told her if she could
not visualize herself as a success she would never be a success,
it began to make sense. Bridget didn't think she thought of
herself as a failure, but realized she also did not think of
herself as a success.
"When
you begin focusing on how you are feeling,
rather than what you are thinking,
you begin to attract what you want.
The Universe is responding to how you feel."
~Eva
Bridget spent fifteen minutes
twice a day visualizing herself running a successful business,
living in the house of her dreams and living a debt-free life.
After a few weeks, she noticed the change in the level of confidence
she had in her abilities. She approached her business dealings
with more self-confidence, which in turn began to increase her
bottom line. Her increase in confidence made her much more attentive
to her customers which produced larger sales. With Dora as her
coach, Bridget used her dreams to obtain her reality. She visualized,
imagined, spoke about and wrote down her goals to support her
state of being. She refused to back down and allow limiting
thoughts to tarnish her future.
Coach's Corner
If Bridget could do it, so can you! Let go of the limiting
thoughts and begin by embracing the life you want, desire and
deserve. Let the picture you see in your mind support your goals
and you will help them materialize that much faster. Let your
dreams be the guide to your future and the road to your success.
You just have to close your eyes and ... dream. Try this for
fifteen minutes twice each day, and see how you begin feeling
about yourself and your ability to attract what you want.
©
Eva Gregory, Leading Edge Publishers, 2005.