ENTER TO WIN!
In the month of February, 2007, we have five copies of
Monte and Amy's book, Love, Light, and Laughter to give away.
See details at the bottom of this article...

Compliment Each Other
Always complement each other on good qualities and do it several times a day. If you like the way he/she looks, smells, or makes you feel today, say so. You don't need to go out of your way to encounter the delights of romance. Your lust for life can make you very attractive. Do your best to make yourself and your surroundings as attractive as possible, but don't strive and strain. The important thing is to show you care - romance should be fun, not work or a sacred duty. Tell each other how wonderful you think they are, how good at something they are, how much you admire and respect a quality that they embody - tell each other how much you love each other all the time.

Be Kind and Really Learn to Listen
You must remember to listen to your partner when he or she is speaking. There are few things as attractive about a person as someone who is interested in what you are saying. Interest leads to sharing, and sharing leads to caring. Conversely, there are few things as annoying as someone who does not listen to what you are saying or does not take you seriously. If you and your partner are not interested in what you have to say to each other, you are not really interested in each other. Not being heard can lead to your feeling misunderstood and not appreciated for who you really are. Kindness in communication leads to mutual examination and personal exploration; it creates a close bond of understanding that deepens love and helps keep romance alive.

Show You are Happy To See Each Other
When you share love, you can enjoy knowing that you are helping your partner to live to the fullest. Show you care. Passion and compassion are what make you attractive. If you would enjoy the passion of love, you must first act with passion. Smile, hug, kiss, and touch when you see each other, even if you are in the midst of annoying news. Remember, you are each the most important and powerful thing in each other's lives. Everything else is secondary. This is the secret of true joy and happiness in a committed relationship. As a little exercise, try putting your foreheads together and staring in each other's eyes. This creates a beautiful and magical connection with your "Third Eye" energy. It will make you smile, too!

Explore Fantasies Together
To dream and fantasize about goals is as essential as eating, drinking, and breathing - if we are to function fully in the world. Being with someone with whom you can comfortably share your deepest feelings is a real turn-on. Where there is no lying or pretending, you can act naturally and reveal your hopes and dreams without being afraid that you will be judged or misunderstood. This authenticity creates an ever-expanding openness between lovers and makes for a truly profound and intimate relationship. Try reading aloud to each other; have scents and aromas that remind you of your love and the chapters of your life together; massage each other every day, not just on occasions; speak and listen from your heart as well as your head.

Maintain a Sense of Humor
If you want to keep your relationship on track, keep working on your sense of humor. It is a tremendous asset when it comes to relationships. A sense of humor is one of the most valuable and attractive features a person can have. If you can keep looking for the humor in your situation, not only will you find it, it can get you through practically any difficult time. To women, men who can make them laugh are more attractive than anything. As they say in the movie business, funny is money. And men value women with great senses of humor, too. Being funny can be more attractive than all of the make-up, clothing, accessories, and scents. The old chestnut goes, "The unexamined life is not worth living". In our opinion, the life you can't laugh at isn't worth living.

© Monte Farber and Amy Zerner, 2007

SUBSCRIBER’S PRIZES FOR FEBRUARY 2007

Love, Light, and Laughter
By Monte Farber and Amy Zerner

Part autobiography, part self-help, and
part laugh-out-loud hoot,
this is no ordinary relationship book...

No matter whether you want to change, end, or start a creative, intimate relationship, this book gives tons of true-life tips for putting your partnership first and making it work. It's no secret that sharing stories is a way to teach others what you know. In Love, Light, and Laughter, Monte Farber and Amy Zerner share the story of their remarkable union, along with more than 26 secrets for an enchanted relationship.

The title Love, Light, and Laughter describes the course of any enchanted relationship. First comes love. Then you need to work - always - to shed light on yourselves and your relationship. But no relationship endures without laughter.

HOW TO ENTER

ENTRY IS ALWAYS FREE TO PAID SUBSCRIBERS!

Send us an email containing your username and full mailing address,
with the words PLW FEBRUARY PRIZE GIVEAWAY in the subject line.

But wait - there's more!
In this, the traditional month of love,
we ask you to amp up those luuuvin' vibes...

Share with us a story from your own personal experience:
tell us about your most accidentally hilarious romantic moment.
Your story doesn't have to be long, just a paragraph or three.

Entries must be received by midnight (PST) on February 28th, 2007
at this email address: vara@planetlightworker.com.

Entries will be chosen on March 1st, 2007.
Winners will be notified within 14 days.

ABOUT THE AUTHORS

Husband and wife team, Author Monte Farber and Artist Amy Zerner are the creators of many best-selling self-help books, tools, and oracles. Love, Light, and Laughter: Relationship Secrets of the Enchanted Couple (Red Wheel/Weiser, ISBN 1-59003-007-9) is a book and oracle that shares their insights about a soul-mate life. Their award-winning website is www.TheEnchantedWorld.com.