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IF YOU LIVED IN A TRADITIONAL SOCIETY and presented
your tribal shaman with a case of cancer, arthritis, heart disease,
snakebite or the breakup of a relationship, the shaman would address
the immediate problem and then search for the deeper emotional or psychic
disturbance that was causing your dilemma. In traditional societies,
the healing process requires that the cause of the failure be addressed
as well as the immediate difficulty. Your blood pressure may be high, your cholesterol count may be off the charts, your joints may be stiff and your arteries may be weak, but to traditional healers, the heart disease, arthritis, stroke or cancer that can develop from these systemic problems, although regrettable, are natural progressions from unhealed psychic or emotional disturbances. Moving away from the purely physical, your personal relationships may be a mess and you may be having a difficult time fitting into the world, but just as with physical problems, unless you address the deeper causes to these difficulties, you only address the manifestation without attending to what is driving it. Allow me to be clear: if an organ or a body system becomes dysfunctional, it is essential to intervene and bring the system to a more normal state, but in addressing the systemic failure, we must not be confused about this being healing, for it is not. It is restoration of the highest order, and it is vitally important! Restoration usually entails adding something to the body such as drugs, or a physical intervention such as heart surgery or splints to a broken bone. This is extremely important work, but it does not address underlying cause. At this point one might be inclined to ask, "Well what about accidents? Don't hearts sometimes just fail?" And the answer, in my belief, is, "No, they do not." There are no accidents, no random events. Everything that happens here is providential. It is purposeful and intended.
The misalignment of spiritual nature as the source of a person's physical or emotional difficulties is a theme found frequently in the precepts of indigenous cultures. The Iroquois, for example, speak of disease as resulting from the conflict created when the soul's needs are not met. They believe the soul becomes "resentful" when ignored and then creates difficulties for the individual. The soul's perspective is, of course, God's perspective. So to the Iroquois, disease is the result of turning away from the God Space. The Mayans would agree. They see disease as the result of a disturbance to the relationship between people and the gods, created by an individual's disharmonious behaviors and attitudes. Healing requires that individuals make changes not only in their behaviors but also to their beliefs. Navaho medicine woman Annie Kahn describes illness as "the habit of excluding," which disturbs the natural harmony. She says, "To heal, one must... accept. This very act causes healing." People who know nothing of shamanic practices often speak of feeling a hole in their spirit. If this separated part is not "retrieved," the person is then vulnerable to emotional and physical problems.
We get romantic about tribal cultures holding these truths, without
realizing that these beliefs were once a very important part of our
own culture as well. Carl Jung wrote, "When the God is not acknowledged, egomania develops, and out of this mania comes sickness." Once regarded as a "quaint" and "primitive" idea by Western intellectuals, some physicians are beginning to recognize and accept the wisdom of these ancient and time-tested concepts. Jean Achterberg, a professor of psychology and physical medicine writes, "It is becoming increasingly clear, that what the shamans refer to as soul loss - injury to the inviolate core which is the essence of a person's being - does manifest as despair, immunological damage, cancer, and a host of other very serious disorders." So in summary, to heal you must address the deeper disturbance that created the surface manifestation. You must release the beliefs that drive it. In the shaman's view, it is soul loss that leads to the creation of pain and physical and/or emotional disease. When we heal, we eliminate the things we have identified with which are "not us." Healing means finding your true self. It means striping away and releasing the contrary beliefs and attitudes that keep the real self, hidden. Healing does not involve adding anything to the system, whether that is pharmaceuticals or knowledge. Rather, healing is a process of releasing the beliefs, fear and anxieties that keep you out of the God Space. It is not about learning anything, taking drugs, surgery or acquiring some esoteric meditation or yoga technique.
Healing Means Letting Go
One of the biggest obstacles in counseling is getting a client to let go of the life structures she has created, no matter how dysfunctional they may be, in order to make room for new behaviors and attitudes. When people come for healing, it is because they are hurting and frustrated. If they felt their old way of doing things would still work, they wouldn't be asking for help! The challenge is helping them feel safe enough to risk finding a different way of life. In the moment, it is easier to avoid the inner child's fears and pain and simply push through a challenging situation. And until you are ready, really ready, to give up your fears and limiting beliefs, they will interfere with your ability to be whole. What you need to do in concept is very simple. But you have to be ready to go there. You must really want it! There is an old Chinese story about a famous healer who lived near the top of a mountain. He had a great gift, but the climb to reach him was difficult, especially for people with afflictions. Someone asked him once why he did not move lower so people who needed his healing could reach him more easily. His answer was most interesting. He said, "Those who really want to heal will get here." His answer may seem callous, but there is a great deal of truth in what he said.
When a person comes for healing I know we are dealing with at least
two personality parts. One part of them sincerely wants to heal Sometimes people come wanting a miracle in order to avoid dealing with the pain of having to change themselves, but it doesn't work that way. That would be just about the worst thing that could happen for them.
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