| CONTINUING
OUR DISCUSSION on the needs of the "New Children"
now in part 2 of this article:
Play
- out
in nature daily, away from utility lines, in the woods, at
the beach, in the countryside. Nature will cleanse the auric
fields of imbalances and disturbances
- sand
and water play
- freedom
to climb, run, explore, touch, feel, taste, touch
- too
many toys can overwhelm
-
age appropriate art supplies available at all times for many
methods of creative expression (water colors and easel, finger
paints, sculpting clay, etc.)
- musical
instruments and music. We are seeing that many of these Interdimensional
New Children are responding amazingly to music. It is calming,
balancing and seems to transport them to another realm, an
interdimensional realm most of us are not privy to consciously.
Experiment with different types of music from classical to
harpsichord to the music of the whales and dolphins. One woman
told me that Strauss waltzes are especially wonderful for
assisting children with balance, clarity, organization and
expression,
- watch
your child's response to all of the screens (TV, computer,
etc.) in your home, as these children are especially sensitive
to electricity, which does not seem to harmonize well with
them
- many
of these new children are benefiting from martial arts in
some form with the right teacher. Look around, ask questions
and let your child make the decision
- gardening
and growing things can be very good for a balanced life
- pets
have a wonderful effect
- swimming
is excellent, but beware chlorine. There are new nontoxic
ways to keep water free of bacteria and algae now.
Immediate environment
- nonpoisonous
plants in the child's room but out of reach of small hands.
Again, plants clear and clean the room of any disruptive energy
- natural
lighting, full spectrum light bulbs
- uncluttered
room
- colors
of the child's choosing in the room. These will often be the
softer and pastel colors
- a
very minimum of electrical devices, especially in the child's
sleeping area and not within 6 feet
- no
electric blankets
- beware
of molds and mildews
- ask
the angels, or whatever form of divinity you call upon, to
clear the child's room daily of any disharmonious energies
- as
you put the child to sleep for the night, remind him that
he is not alone, that he has guides, angels, Jesus, Buddha,
whoever, with him. Many of these children can see these Beings,
so you are just letting them know that you are on the same
page as they are, that you approve. Also remind him that he
has the absolute right to ask anyone to leave him in peace,
whether human or spirit.
Clothing
-
natural
fabrics as they are very sensitive to how a fabric feels on
their skin
-
wash
new clothing at least once prior to wearing to remove chemicals
-
ask
the child what colors he likes to wear. This can change daily,
so honor what the child says.
-
Most
will want soft, comfortable, unrestricted clothing and shoes
Other people
- never
insist that your child hug or kiss or touch someone that he
does not want to
- avoid
crowds and crowded places like malls if your child does not
enjoy them. Crowded places have so many different energies
that many of the new children physically hurt in that environment
- don't
be surprised if your child has an intense reaction of some
sort, maybe even becoming ill, if they are around people who
are angry, fearful or hateful
- respect
your child's deep need to be alone, to be quiet. This is her
way of clearing, balancing and recharging on a daily basis
Education
-
preschool
that offers a lot of self directed PLAY. In many cities in
the United States, there are “Parent Co-operative Preschools”
under the auspices of the Community College system, which
are excellent
-
continue
the theme of “self direction” throughout the school
years
-
equally
important is that, no matter what the philosophy of the school,
your child's individual teacher merits observation if the
child is unhappy in school. While some Indigo Children receive
a lot of attention at school, the Crystal Child can go unnoticed
as a result of being quiet, reserved and not really wanting
to be the center of attention. You will rarely see a Crystal
Child draw attention to himself. Also these children will
have a very challenging time in a classroom where there is
a lot of anger or fear, whether expressed or unexpressed.
Education is one of the most challenging areas with the New
Children, one that is most in need of changing.
General
-
offer
choices in everything where there is real choice. Would you
like to wear the yellow shirt or the white one? Would you
like to have a drink of water before you brush your teeth?
Then honor the answer.
-
avoid
sharp criticism. Instead, clearly and gently explain that
there is another way to do something. For the most part, these
children are self-correcting, however.
-
avoid
talking down to or patronizing your child. Listen to what
he has to say and you will be astounded at what comes out
of his mouth.
-
As
your child matures, beware of invading his personal body space
(even touching him) without permission. This applies to entering
his room, reading his mail, etc. To me, this is a common courtesy
which should be extended to all, but I have been surprised
that it is not so for many parents with regards to their children.
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Remember,
no matter how amazing their gifts may be, they are still human
children, children who need nurturing, guidance, guidelines
and general stewarding on the planet. It is my belief that
the pure Crystal Children who will be coming soon, have not
been to this planet before, so there will be a lot about Earth
systems that will be shocking, maybe even overwhelming, to
them. Bureaucracy seems absolutely idiotic to them.
-
It
will be very difficult for your New Child to do work that
is meaningless, so from the very beginning, you might as well
support and encourage her to find and follow the work of her
heart
I cannot stress enough the importance of parents always acting
in integrity with their child. This means that what you actually
say must match the energy that these observant and sensitive children
can see all around you. If you are seething with anger and your
child asks you what is wrong, do not say “Nothing!”
They will know that you are lying because they can see and feel
it. They will wonder what else they cannot trust from you, so
please make it a habit of being honest with yourself and your
child about how you really feel about EVERYTHING. This is part
of the gift they bring, and when you forget or don't realize that
you are upset, these wonderful children will gently remind you.
Not with an agenda, but just simply with the Truth. I am not suggesting
that you never be upset, but rather that you be honest about it.
As gently as these Beings are, as fragile as they seem, they are
really very strong and can deal with almost anything as long as
they don't feel manipulated or betrayed, etc.
In
the years to come, we are more and more going to be seeing the
strength, agility and gifts of this group of New Children. Those
who are already here may feel safe enough to come out of hiding
and those who are yet to be born, will be more conscious of their
mission here. We have been preparing a place for these children
for a long time - they are us ushering in the gifts of innocence,
peace and wonder.
©
2003 Sharyl Jackson
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A
former public school teacher, turned tax accountant, Sharyl
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