PEOPLE RARELY GIVE US the important opportunity to love them despite their perceived flaws. For good reason. People hide from one another for a host of reasons. Why do they do that? Why do we do that? Because, we learn very early on what happens when we are bad. It's unpleasant - these consequences. We are judged, lectured and punished. So, the next time we are bad, we simply lie about our badness. Or, we deny being bad, or blame it on another. Anything to keep from revisiting the four walls of our messy room, or worse, a red butt and no dinner. Anything but shame, as if denial or lies will keep us from feeling ashamed. The container of our soul is infinitely deep.

We were taught to hide the inner thoughts that create misaligned action as young children. We learn to hide ourselves with each new family vacation, report card, new friend, new project, new job, new marriage, etc. We move further and further into the abyss of self hatred, and then we have children. Thank God for that. Let's get the ball rolling on creating a new and more talented innocent me. I will get it right this time.

Parents are tired and have little time to sit down with children to love them unconditionally, at all cost. Few stop and take the time to understand the cost of not doing so. I have been that parent. There are the long lectures, the projections of our own childhoods, and fear of what will happen to our sweet but helpless child IF they do not learn how to play in the world *the right way*. Like the hands of a clock that beat one minute to the next, so go the lessons of our toddlerhood, childhood, adolescence and our adulthood. The circular life experience, that never ends, just repeats its timely patterns, confident that the past will be a reliable blueprint for the future. This circular insanity births a kind of sick confidence that no one will wake up to the remedies so easily seen when Love is trusted. Unconditional love. Not love that is given only under certain circumstances. Not love that comes because we, as parents, teachers and bosses, know what is best. That is not love. True love does not know sin. That is because God's children do not sin. They experiment. True Love understands mistakes and error in perception, then forgives and teaches, from heart, bringing no harm of any kind.

Before we turn 8 years old, we are very clear on what will happen if we spit, kick, scream, throw, crash, needle, and lie. Since it is human nature to do these things at some points along the way, even as adults, we have had to find deceptive ways to live our lives. No one wants to be found out. Why? Because we were taught that being bad is bad, and dangerous, and selfish, and we will not be loved if we are bad. So, we will not let people know that we have been bad. Instead, we will lie, deny or blame another. Over and over and over. Until the mud is so thick with shame and guilt, we sink into depression. Then, even as we experience this depression, we can't identify it, because our subconscious mind is busy telling us it is about something taking place outside ourselves; in the world, and with the other people in it. And, on some level, this is true because this blueprint is activated on the day you are born into human form. The world falls on you, energetically, as soon as you take your first breath of earthly air.

But, the big people are not wholly ignorant, and many opportunities come to see the truth of what has gone on. Some are strong enough to see, and others are not. The ones who are not yet strong enough to see the truth of themselves, will not find much sympathy in today's world. There is no escape for the 65 year old male who chooses to activate an ancient hidden imprint. An imprint so dark, that it must surface in order to be seen with loving eyes and healed. All darkness we see is seen for a very important reason. To look upon it without fear and disgust and surrender it to Love's decision. We do not know what everything is for. But, of this much I am certain: The darkness does not show itself so we will make it bigger. It shows itself so we might choose to offer it to Love. What does that mean to you? Your decision on what that means to you... is the world you live in. We live in. Many people call themselves followers of Master Jesus, yet they do not understand Love. I too have failed many times.

Babies are not usually ready to make intelligent decisions in the world of earth, so they must rely on the good decision making of their parents. If you stop and think about it, that's a very scary proposition. It's not that parents are bad, it's just that we have yet to, collectively, figure it all out. So, the pattern not only repeats, it strengthens. Your current vibrational imprint holds all of your experiences, going as far back as the day you were born, and then born again, and again and again.

Once we learn about shame and guilt from our parents, it's off to school to learn it from teachers of an educational system built to shame children into performing and behaving. Get an A, win a pizza party. Get a B, win an ice cream cone certificate. Get a C, win nothing. Get a D, win a note home. Get an F, win the loser stamp on your forehead and the red marker F with the frowny face. Imagine the imprint of five red F's. Our prisons are filled with red F's. Our hospitals are filled with red F's.

We humans have created a world of deception. We are immature. We have refused to grow up. We are fully responsible for the collective shame, guilt and the spherical construct of the self hatred that brings lost wars. Imagine if there were a roof on this, because there is. Imagine if all that self hatred were contained in a box. A box filled with some bright ideas and good intentions, but a box filled with centuries and centuries of hateful influence that understands the human mind and the 3D psychology required to keep the box dim. No child left behind.

What is the remedy? Are we to allow murder, rape, embezzlement and war? That's the wrong question. Here's the right question: How do I love my baby, my toddler and my adolescent, unconditionally? If we can truly love our babies and children, we can flip this world over, face up, and heal. But, it will take time, and maybe several generations. It will take one parent at a time, stopping the madness. One teacher at a time, stopping the madness. One boss at a time, stopping the madness. One prison warden, one claims adjuster, one bank president, one lunch lady. What will happen if we don't start now, earnestly, with just you and me? What if we just can't stop the madness? It's not the way the world works. Not the way things are done. It's impossible. Now what? Maybe we wait until we have had more rest. Maybe we wait for cues from others so we don't look like fools. Maybe we wait until China gets it right. Maybe if our politicians pass laws that make us change our minds. Maybe we will read a few more articles on the topic and do a study. Maybe it's too late, for our children are grown, but a good article in any case.

When our children throw rocks and draw on their new dressers with magic markers, it is important to breathe before speaking. The facial expressions alone are what horror movies are made of. We don't even have to speak. Our eyeballs say it all "OMG, you idiot! You moron! You bad, bad child who is embarrassing me and causing me stress I DON'T NEED!" This, right here, is the cause of all that ails our world. This four year old, who acted instinctively, based on ALL the energies of Low D, not just *the right ones*, has experienced an energy shift of monumental proportion. It is a hole that cannot be filled with chocolate and new shoes, because this child knows now what fear and anger looks and feels like. Band aids can stop the bleeding, but it will not stop the imprint. The imprint cannot be destroyed. It can be transformed with Love. True love. But without true love, this imprint is the foundation for all that comes next. And we wonder why there is so much pain.

Children are like sponges. They become what you want them to become. The problem is that you don't realize what you are wanting. You think you want a good child, for his sake, but what you really want is a good child for your sake. No problems. No worries. You want to have the family that you remember watching on TV as a little girl, so you can show it to the world to prove you did good. You overcame the mud and won. But, we know this is not a win. A real win is light on any subject and love anyway.

All that really matters is love. From the very beginning. From the operating room, to the bottle, to the high chair, to the playground, to the school bus, to the baseball field and dance recitals, and to the first date. To the first car, the first love, the first marriage, the first pink slip, the first divorce, the first breakdown, the first zoloft, the first parole hearing, whatever. All the way through life, to the very end. But, it begins with the first breath. We are parents forever. We are teachers forever, but it begins on day one. If we manage all the childhoods with true love, we won't have to worry about the adulthoods. They will be a natural result of the earlier imprints, and we all share responsibility for it. If I had it to do all over again, I would understand more deeply what is required. I was not a perfect parent. I am not yet a perfect parent. I make plenty of mistakes. But, I know more today than I knew yesterday, and new knowledge should never be wasted.

When your children come to you and own the mistakes they make, because they know you will not hurt them, in any way, you know you have taken the steps needed to be one more person who can be a mighty change in this dimension. Your contribution of love will be multiplied a thousand fold. There is no other remedy.

You don't have to be a parent to participate. You are in the world. You are exchanging energy with humans and all living things daily. You have a responsibility.

The remedy is ONE. One person waking up to the remedy and hanging with it at all cost. Trusting in Love to heal the illusion. When ONE does this, TWO benefit immediately. When TWO benefit, FOUR (at least) feel the effects. Love grows. In time, we will forget how to yell at a child, belittle a child, starve a child, and beat a child into submission and a life of deceit, for there will be no fear of harm from another, of any kind. There will truthful understanding of the child mind that loves to use magic markers to create. And, for those times when a child brings harm to another living thing, there is new awareness that we have the sacred opportunity to teach for their sake, not just our own. Teaching from love, without punishment or reward. No red F's. Everyone is invited to the Pizza Party.

If we do not understand the value in true love for our children, we are destined for a horrendous existence. But, when we take our own pain and fear and set it aside in the crucial moments, so we don't get it on our kids, we will heal our own pain and fear without lifting a finger. The act of selfless love for a child is the remedy for the entire physical Universe. Always. On this day, you are free to choose a new way. A day at a time. If you are a parent, you can change your mind about the world you really want. If you are teacher, you can be the first example of a new way to want the world. If you are a boss, you can be instrumental, as the first boss in your organization who truly believed in Love to meet budget.

You will be taught, first as a child, then later as an adult, the right way to do things in this world. Before you hang with that, look at the world you are living in.

Do the big people really have all the answers? Or, is there a still small voice within that knows the truth and has the will and the courage to do it your way. When your child hits another child in school, and you are called in, are you ready to resist the temptation to be horrified? Are you strong enough to embrace your child, in front of everyone in the front office, and tell him of your love for him? Are you now ready to take that child's hand and understand why they hit the child? Are we ready to pray and surrender this incident unto the One Who Knows? Are you willing to step outside the human construct and BE the light you came to be? If you can manage this case with true love, the next case may never occur.

It's quite clear, to me anyway, that our world has not worked well with harsh love - tough love. We are off path and set for a violent ending. But, do you know the power of one choice? Of one decision to shift? Even as your game piece is rounding the corner to the end of your own life? You are never without power. It is what Creation is made of.

© Sheree Rainbolt-Kren, 2007

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Sheree Rainbolt-Kren is a professional Spiritual Dowser, Reiki Master, and Writer on topics related to spiritual growth, multi dimensional awareness and up close, TRUTH activism for 2012 and beyond.

She teaches dowsing and Reiki freely at her online yahoo forum. Sheree also hosts Pendulum Forum Talk and Music Radio. Click on her picture to visit her website.