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LOVE, ACTUALLY

“THE” HOLIDAYS. FAMILY. CLOSE FRIENDS. The end of one year and the beginning of a new one. A time when one’s heart may be at its most vulnerable — either fully open to the warmth of all the love that the season can imply, or, perhaps, fully susceptible to the loneliness that can seem almost unbearable in the longing for family, a significant other, health, or peace of mind.

Traditionally, Hollywood has embraced this Season with films that touch the beauty within the soul of humanity, the best known and most enduring example being, perhaps, IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE, which always plays innumerable times during this season (and in which I get lost each and every time I happen to flip to it when it’s on - I’m always hooked!!).

Now, with little fanfare, a new film has arisen which may, in years to come, take its place as a classic Holiday film - LOVE, ACTUALLY is, ”actually”, that wonderful, and it couldn’t arrive at a more propitious moment. Unfortunately, cynicism and the darker side of life have so permeated the corridors of Hollywood that the so-called “critic’s” darlings of this Season so far have mostly been films like MYSTIC RIVER, THE MISSING, and 21 GRAMS, all of which “celebrate” the darker side of humanity. LOVE, ACTUALLY is the antidote to all that darkness, and it is a pleasure to be able to luxuriate in its dizzying and intoxicating recipe for joy, laughter, pathos, and life (and I also have high hopes for other films coming up like BIG FISH, SOMETHING’S GOTTA GIVE, and MONA LISA SMILES — but…we’ll see...).

LOVE, ACTUALLY begins with a sequence at Heathrow Airport in London where the joyful greetings of families and loved ones is observed with a wonderful voiceover that puts the film itself in early perspective. Even with all the anger and hate that is blared at us in our every day world, Writer/Director Richard Curtis (FOUR WEDDINGS AND A FUNERAL, NOTTING HILL, BRIDGET JONES' DIARY) poignantly observes that, “even after the planes hit the twin towers”, the messages from people who were on those planes were not those of hate or revenge but rather that “love is, actually, all around us.”

The film itself is a compendium of nine mostly-interlocking stories that illuminate the myriad faces of love:

• A newlywed couple and a best man who seems to be in love with one of the newlyweds himself — but which one?
• A man who finds his girlfriend in a tryst with his brother travels to France and finds a new love - even though he speaks only English and she only Portuguese.
• An aging rock star (a hilarious Academy Award-worthy performance by Bill Nighy) attempts a comeback with a lame Christmas song and a beleaguered manager.
• An oversexed and wildly exuberant young man decides that he must go to America to find sex — because the women there will be seduced by his accent!
• The new Prime Minister of England (Hugh Grant - who else?) meets someone on his staff on his first day on the job and becomes enchanted with her.
• A widower struggles to help himself and his stepson cope with their new situation in life - and also help the boy through his first encounter with love for a schoolmate.
• A woman is hopelessly in love with a co-worker but torn because of her devotion to her mentally ill brother.
• A couple meets while they are working as stand-ins on a sexually-themed film and must simulate certain very intimate acts for the camera and lighting crew of a film while actually trying to meet each other as human beings.
• A middle-aged couple faces the careless flirtation of the husband with a zealous employee while the wife (luminously and poignantly portrayed by the inestimable Emma Thompson, returning to movies from way too long an absence) struggles to maintain her dignity (she succeeds!).
  

On the surface, these many storylines may seem unwieldy but they most assuredly are not. In fact, they blend together almost seamlessly into an engrossing, hilarious, often poignant and very human dramatic comedy. As you might have guessed from the storylines, the film very definitely is R-rated, for tasteful and often hilarious sexuality. I saw it with three of my four daughters, all of whom - including my youngest (17)- absolutely loved it.

There have been so few films this year that you walk out of feeling happy and proud to simply be a human being (WHALE RIDER being at the top of my own list) that LOVE, ACTUALLY comes along in this particular season as a welcome and refreshing reminder of the beauty of our humanity; that, above all the strife and challenges that confront us, we have this unique and endless capacity to consciously immerse ourselves in the experience of love — for one another, and for ourselves. I believe that you will walk out of the theater smiling. And I wish you and your friends the happiest of Holidays.

© Stephen Simon, 2004

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Stephen Simon has just produced and directed the new film INDIGO (www.Indigothemovie.com, and previously such films as Somewhere in Time and What Dreams May Come. His book The Force is With You: Mystical Movie Messages That Inspire Our Lives, published by Walsh Books/Hampton Roads, is now available. Stephen also leads seminars, telecourses, and inspirational Mystical Movie events around the world. For more information, please visit www.Mysticalmovies.com . Stephen welcomes your comments by email: Stephen@MysticalMovies.com.