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MAY 2004
Any contacts in the Chicago land area? Dear Sharyl, I read of your work with Indigo children on the Nibiruan site, and am sending an email to see if you have contacts in the Chicago land area [zip code 60044]. I am concerned about my grand daughter [born 9/12/01]. She exhibits some of the signs of anger that indicate something is out of balance, and I know she would benefit by some early intervention [or something better]. There are complications in that her Father [my son] is very strict with her, and has a hard time honoring her feelings. I see some real issues coming forward, but also need to honor her parents role as well. I have always tried to live with integrity.. but it seems that my son has some issues that I do not understand as well. He is the one that would prefer to have things go his way regardless of the cost to others. I
know this sounds strange, but any assistance or input would probably
be helpful.
GREETINGS,
You already know this, but I will say it anyway. Your granddaughter chose her father and it will be necessary for them to work out their issues without your input unless you are asked. When you are around her or she is in your care, you can simply role model something else. You can allow her to make more choices for herself and express her feelings in a way that she knows she is heard. You may already be aware, but there is much info out there on the new kids. Check out Planetlightworker on the internet, where I am the section editor for the children's section. It is a subscription magazine now, but there are several years of past issues which were free. Also check out Childrenofthenewearth.com, where you can subscribe to an excellent print magazine which is published quarterly. I do not know anyone in the Chicago area specifically, but maybe someone will come forward from your area. Maybe you could even consider starting a grandparent's group? Oh,
and her anger can and probably is a very good thing! It ain't easy being
a kid these days.
My
twins boys aren't talking. Dear
Sharyl,
My boys are named Logan and Ethan, born July 26, 2002 at 2:26 and 2:28pm, respectively. This makes them 20-months-old right now. Logan (the older one) is a sensitive child, with bright blue eyes. Very much into his own little world, making his own games and such. Very easily overstimulated which causes him to withdraw a bit and tune out. He seems almost overly sensitive at times and easily annoyed, especially by his brother. Ethan (the younger one) is a sweet child with large, knowing, brown eyes. He is prone to outbursts and temper tantrums but with the same intensity he is very sweet and empathetic. He is very helpful and protective of Logan. He seems to be the trailblazer and is stubborn, very headstrong. He seemed to be born empathetic to both people and animals. He is both explosive and tender at the same time. Grandma says he reminds her of me as a baby. Neither
boy has much use for words at all. I'm beginning to worry a little bit
about that. I think being a stay at home mommy has really aided me in
anticipating their needs, so there isn't as much need for them to communicate
through words. I'm sure their babbling talk is a secret twin language
as well. Sincerely,
Greetings: What an interesting letter!! You may or may not know that I have 24-year- old twins, so this letter is quite special to me. Absolutely, you can have twins who are that different. As noted in their eye color, your twins are fraternal (coming from different eggs) rather than identical (in which one egg splits after fertilization). Thus they are no more alike than other brothers would be. Now back to your question, yes, I think one is more Cystal and the other more Indigo. However, there could be some crossover, as I have been seeing a lot of that lately, so that the names Indigo and Crystal are becoming less and less useful as describers. Also, I have seen that over the years, my twins have done some role switching for periods of time, but they still have retained a basic "personality." I have heard that a number of the new children are talking later. That was not my experience, but Doreen Virtue in her book on the Crystal Children says that they are late talkers. At their age, I certainly wouldn't worry about it. You have noticed that they have their own communication and relationship which is unique. That will always be so. I cannot answer about the future of their relationship, but I do believe that twins agree to come together with a plan in place. My Maria told me years ago, "When I decided to come here, I said, 'I ain't comin' alone,'so Rachel agreed to come along." I learned years ago to stay out of a disagreement between the two of them, which, by the way, did not happen until their very early teens. They really will work it out. Thanks
for writing and thanks for being a great mom,
Help with my child's cry Dear Sharyl: My two-month-old daughter does not want anyone besides her father and me to hold her. She screams and screams for quite awhile before I can settle her down. Everyone says that she is very young to be doing this, but taking her out has become quite a problem. My sister-in-law came to visit for a month as she is going through a difficult divorce and my daughter wanted nothing to do with her. Also, in the evening she would cry and cry before she went to sleep. Any suggestions? Thank
you,
Dear Johnna: Your daughter is obviously quite sensitive. Virtually all of the children being born right now are, but the big clue is that your distressed sister-in-law clearly upset your daughter. You see, as sensitive as she is, she feels or “picks up on” any heavy emotions that others carry. She simply cannot be in their energy field. When she is affected by other's emotions, she must have a way to release them, hence the crying. You can hold her if you wish and sing to her, but she must go through her process of releasing, so don't try to stop her. It can be very helpful for you to take her outside near a body of water or a park (away from power lines) as nature will help her come back into balance and relax. You can also give her a bath as water will help clear her auric fields. I would stay away from large crowds and malls with her for a while as she is clearing showing you her discomfort. Absolutely do not let anyone hold her that she is uncomfortable with. Simply tell them that she is sensitive to strangers right now and that you are honoring her wishes. She may always be like this... my 29-year-old son is! He still requires long periods of time totally away from people. He will simply tell someone that he is not good company right now and then disappear. Your daughter sounds like she will not be shy about letting you know what she needs, so take your clues from her. Love,
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A
former public school teacher, turned tax accountant, Sharyl
Jackson is an Associate Editor of